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Scott Gibb's avatar

To what extent am I paranoid? Occasionally wondering if I’m being shadow banned by Substack when in reality my posts just aren’t that great. Can anyone relate?

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Andrew Almonte's avatar

It might be interesting to consider how the "invisibility" of intentions is a learned behavior of becoming self-conscious beings. Infants do not have a gap between their emotional states and their visible expression to others. It becomes a matter of bodily control to, for example, smile while embarrassed, and thus learn the ability to manipulate situations, to feign nonchalance or present as more brave and intimidating than you feel. The need to navigate the social world at the heights of self-consciousness and wonder about other's thoughts occurs in adolescence. Social threat detection sensitivity likely gets tuned (perhaps over-tuned) in that emotional crucible.

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